Monday, September 29, 2008

Friends Forever

Back in college I used to have lots n lots of friends..We all had a great time.We used to fight,gossip,comment , above all share our feelings and support eachother. There was a day when I thought what happens as we move on with our lives into different fields of work to different places? But deep down inside something keeps on telling me that nothing makes us apart.We used to exchange cards n gifts writing a note 'Friends forever'..Is this true? Are they with me now?

Nope..Many of them I even don't know where they are.some of them got busy with their lives working n learning..Now I am left with a very few friends with whom I can really look forward to share all my happiness n sorrows.Now I actually understand the meaning of "treasuring your friendship".

You never know what happens with your life. People learn a lot of things as they move on the ladder of life. They meet people everywhere.Few may find better friends, few may think there is nothing much to do with friends. Some of them may carry the past memories where they got hurt and so doesn't think much about having friends.

When I sit back and think about my college days ..I laugh at myself about all the mischief we used to make. Esp my hostel life.As u know " Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus",
people from venus have this tendency to share everything with the ones around.They have the most generous heart.They have all the time in the world to listen to co-venutians, sort out their problems and if that is not possible atleast give them few suggestions to make things better.They will recheck on the issue,discuss with others even if it was told as a secret and constant updates and a list of dos and don'ts will be posted.So there used to be never ending non-stop chatting about our small world that was our college. From the time we actually left for college to the time we returned back each and every minute detail was exchanged and if there were any funny incidents people enacted it.And above all shopping with the gang ,going around on our two wheelers.wow that may not be the best to do in college time but yet drawing simple pleasures out of a normal life. I wish there is a rewind button in life as well.

Though we may not be in touch and know eachothers whereabouts..these memories are like a great treasure to me.