Everything happens for a reason..

Do you believe that everything happens for a reason?

When you are in trouble or when you are in fear of losing something dearest to you or when someone hurts you ,your heart needs a constant reassurance and support to believe that nothing would go wrong..Then you rely on the inputs from your spouse,friends and family.You want them to analyze the things and tell you "everything will be alright".How the people around you can say that? Its because they believe that "everything happens for a reason".They have this insight which tells them that you are gonna get out of trouble.Because the ones dearer to you trust you ,love you .


Their good will act like a shield around you and fight against the negative theories which constantly flash in front of you " Why the hell did this happen to me,why did this happen only to me".Things pile up one by one creating a huge mess in your mind.Your subconscious mind then tells you "talk to your dearest ones".Then you remember that you are not alone in the world.You have people with you who can help fight these obstacles in life, most of which don't happen with your involvement. You have to remember at all times that You are not the master of the world.You cannot rule the world. People around us are different.They don't think about us.Only friends care for us.So you cannot expect everyone around you to like you,understand you,care for you, to follow the rules.

Finish your job.Don't expect anything in return. This may sound philosophical but if you hate someone or have a feeling of disgust for anyone that eventually hurts you not them.Forgive them Think "To err is human".Deviate yourself from these negative feelings because end of the day you don't want to hate anyone,curse anyone because what you do is what you are supposed to do and you are perfect in doing your job.Why do you want to take all this crap and pollute your mind.Release all the hatred and negative feelings.Have a pleasant mind where you think about only the people you love.To take revenge you need not do anything ,hurting people is very easy and that is what most ignorant and adamant people do all the times.Leave the act of punishment to the Omnipotent. To forgive is difficult.Pray God should give them a good heart and mind and to ease yourself of the rage say " EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON ". Because it helps you discover a new you.