Love your life

What are the things that just force a person ( esp children) to decide against life and give up a valuable life?

Why don't they just understand that they are a part of a family where everyone loves them and that they are in such a wonderful place where people around them are full of love and affection.Why don't they just consider it for a moment ..


Why will they just take a decision and say that they just want to end up their life and do it?Are they not enough matured ?Whats going on with todays education system ...Does it provide any strength to fight against these psychological imbalances?

Parents give children whatever they can and they take utmost care of them ..They just give up all the pleasures in life and sacrifice evreything for the upbringing of their children.They just hope that thier child should be a good human being with moral values..They provide good education to learn things, be cultured and civilized...what should children learn?

Apart from education children should learn to be strong even in the adverse situations..whatever the reasons might be they have no right to end their life..If there is something stressful in their life, they should express it to their parents or friends...An open and friendly chat regarding any kind of issue helps in solving it easily.


At the same time parents should not force a grownup child to do anything against his/her wish..they should give that space to the child and should ensure him /her that they are with them at all times..A parent should try to know whats going on in their child's life.If there is a problem with the child do not just comment on it..sarcacism never helps.More over it hurts much..the child takes it as an abuse and it widens the gap between the parent and child..Do not compare with others .Focus on the child's area of expertise.Give him courage and inspiration to do things.The child can be a better individual if they do so.

Parents should understand there is a great diversity of mental abilities in children.One child may be active and can grasp things easily while the other may be sober but really good at logically solving the problems ..One cannot judge a child by giving a common example because every child's performance is different..

We all know its complicated for a child to understand and take life seriously at that age..but we can avoid major psychological issues of children by just giving them more love and support.
The stress that a child has due to rising compettition is a major cause for these emotional imbalance.Just keeping away all these reasons, lets do our best in giving a relaxed and joyful life to our children .

Love your life...